Saturday, August 13, 2011

Change for nobody except for yourself

Sunset on our lake last night.
 
Choose to change for nobody.Only change for yourself.If you find yourself always changing for others you are not living life for you. Life is to short to not live for you.
Do you ever find that you are merely trying and not really doing? If so, you’re not being who you truly are.
You don’t have to try to be yourself.Make others understand that they have to except you for who you are.After all it's the way god made you.Life is all about give and take.Except others and they will except you in return Being yourself is where you’ll be most effective.
There is no power, only conflict, in trying to be someone or something you’re not. Instead of fighting against yourself, use your energy to more fully be yourself. What you step forward and do, without hesitation, without excuses and with great enthusiasm, is where you’ll create the most  value.Yes, by all means make the difficult, challenging, complicated and effective efforts. Go beyond the meaningless trying and fill your life with meaningful doing.In other words dont try. Just do it. Do what comes natural and life will be filled with meaningful experiences. Life will always have it's ups and downs. Take it for what it is and except it. Keep your head up and continue to move forward. Nobody can move you forward but you. But everybody else can slow the forward momentum and move you backwards. Life is to short to move backwards.If you find yourself always in a conflit with others then perhaps it's time to make a change. Not for others but for yourself. Perhaps your not excepting others for who they are or perhaps your not excepting yourself. Try to always love and not hate. There is so much hate in the world we live in that it's easy to fall into that catagory. Remember to break the rules now and then. Forgive quickly,Laugh uncontrollably,Love always and never regret anything or anyone that makes you laugh.
God bless our soldiers in uniform. Prayers to the haters and our friends in the UK. dealing with the riots and looting. To all a great weekend. Next week I am going to open my blogs for comments. Feel free to post comments.
God Bless
Jason